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Kathy Mathieu lit a candle

Tuesday, January 17, 2017

In loving memory of Dave forever and always love Flo

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Kasandra Peters posted a condolence

Saturday, December 31, 2016

First off, I want to thank everyone for joining us today and also to those who have shared their condolences, pictures, and stories over the last week. Your support has been tremendous and I cannot say thank you enough. It's a busy time of year for everyone and we appreciate the time you have taken to help us heal, making sure we ate and to help us all remember Dad. While we can never be prepared for something like this, I consider the fact that we have such a strong network of support to help prop us up means we will always somehow be prepared for whatever curve balls life throws us. I will just say simply that I miss my Dad. I am heartbroken that my mom has lost her best friend, my brother his fishing, hunting and just chatting-on-the-phone buddy, my husband his Bruins fan rival and Parker what I know for sure would have been the most generous and loving grandpa. While I am sad for me and my immediate family, I sometimes forget about all the other people who are at a loss with Dad's passing. His generosity and genuine interest in others' lives means we have truly lost someone who was many different things to many people: son, son-in-law, husband, father, grandfather, brother, brother-in-law, cousin, nephew, uncle, great uncle, friend, coworker, neighbour and many more. It always amazed me how Dad almost always could find someone he knew and would stop to talk to while we would be out and about, sometimes to our dismay if we were trying to get somewhere! And of course he knew everyone on my paper route, but to be fair it was Callander, and there were only 11 customers. I think what I learned from Dad is that it is important to take the time to do the things you love. I remember watching him play ball and tennis with his friends and getting together at someone's house afterwards to bbq and to just hang out, enjoying their company. I think growing up in Callander Dad brought us to local events like fun fest, winter carnival and sandcastle building contests to encourage us to participate in minnow races, donut eating games and giving back to the place where we grew up. This is how I gained an understanding of getting out of the house to enjoy your community and to appreciate those volunteers who help run the events. It is likely why Thomas and I chose our current home in Newmarket because we get that same sense of community. Dad was my go-to-guy for asking any advice about home repairs. I'd call him from the store just find out which paint brush to buy! He was there many times to help Thomas, Chad and I turn our house into a home and always wanted to pitch in or build something, even if he wasn't feeling well and most of the time he tried not to let on how he was feeling anyways. Together with mom, my parents were a model of what love and strong relationships should look like. They were best friends and high school sweethearts whose relationship only grew stronger as they became amazing parents and each other's rocks to lean on when the going got tough. Dad's dedication to his kids is something I hope Thomas and I can follow his example in as we bring up our own son. I know sometimes Dad felt bad that his illness before Thomas and I got married took away from our day. I believe just the opposite, that the timing of his homecoming and receiving the gift of life via a liver transplant couldn't have been more appropriate. He was able to be there and that's all that mattered. When we told dad we were going to have a baby, he burst into tears - well, actually first he thought the ultrasound picture was a receipt for something mom and I bought on one of our shopping trips - but then was so happy because he never thought he'd make it to see a grand baby and we are so happy that he did. Like we've said in his memoriam, Dad enjoyed the simpler things but many of them. As a kid, I can remember going across the street after he was home from work to have a quick dip in the lake because it was too darn hot in our apartment. In the winter we'd get bundled up and head out to the ice shack, usually to meet Grandma and Papa, or we'd go sliding down the sled route he'd built us in the back yard. At the cottage, he'd know the best fishing spots so we could have some fun catching little perch, sometimes he was busy making sure our lines were good that he didn't have a chance to drop his own. He'd also make sure we'd get some sort of game going like Texas Horseshoes or crib or alleys or dice. And he'd like to putter around the kitchen with new recipes to try for mom or to make sure he secured a ribfest win. I could go on and on about Dad, but there will be many other opportunities to share our stories together and I will definitely be letting Parker know what an amazing man his grandpa was. So, in the spirit of Dad, if you have the chance - stop to say hi and chat for that extra minute or two or drop someone a line to say that you've been thinking about them, cast your line one more time - just in case, sit by the fire for one more story or laugh, play that extra round or hand, and hold that hug just a moment longer. Luv you Dad.

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kathy mathieu posted a condolence

Friday, December 30, 2016

Dave will be greatly missed by a large, loving and supportive extended family and many friends. There are too many to mention here but know that he loved and cherished spending time with all of you who touched his life and greatly appreciated those who gave of their time to be with him, especially over the past few months. Dave was a very loving and proud father and husband. His greatest joys were spending time with his children, grandson and his partner in life's adventures, and high school sweetheart, Kathy, whom he affectionately referred to as Flo. He treasured all of his family and friends who would come to the camp to share stories and laughter around the campfire. "Porkchop" enjoyed fishing and spending time with his dad and all his hunting buddies and puttering in his garage woodworking, fixing, and building things. The simplest things in life brought him joy, like sitting around the table playing cards, alleys, or dice. He also loved the peace and quiet of the outdoors. In his younger years, Dave was very active in the Callander community coaching T-Ball, baseball, and organizing sandcastle contests and winter carnival games. He was always eager to volunteer and give back. He developed great relationships with his many loyal customers and co-workers during his days at Wasi Building Center and Lakeview Builders. In 2011 he was extremely fortunate to receive the gift of life by way of a liver transplant and was grateful every day for the opportunity to make many more memories. His way of paying it forward was by being as generous as he could to those around him. He was genuinely interested in the lives of all of his family and friends. His strength, courage, positive attitude, big and kind heart, gentle soul, quiet demeanor, contagious smile and laughter will be remembered and missed by all who knew him. And remember.... Life is not easy Life is not perfect But Life is Good!

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Murray and Lisa Kay posted a condolence

Friday, December 30, 2016

Written and read by Murray and Lisa at service The important things in life you cannot buy. The gifts that are given and received have more to do with relationships. It is only those cherished bonds that Dave can leave behind for comfort, and take with him for strength as he journeys into his new world, peacefully, without concept of time as he patiently waits to be rejoined with his loved ones someday. While there will be sadness at times, you will best connect with Dave during times of joy, since he is relieved and refreshed and now only knows positive emotions and experiences. While Dave's life was short, he lived it wide and full, loving all of his family and friends dearly. With these thoughts we are here to celebrate Dave's joys and passions that he was able to indulge in throughout his great life.

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Melissa Turgeon posted a condolence

Friday, December 30, 2016

(Written and read by Melissa) We are all grateful and give thanks for Dave's generous spirit being shared with us here on earth. On behalf of Kathy's first family, we give great thanks for having been blessed with such a generous soul to share life with her. Families don't get to choose who their sons or daughters, brothers or sisters, bring into the greater circle, and we were the lucky ones - Dave strengthened ours. We knew he was the one from the beginning - there is no event that I can say triggered us to know that, it was the energy and quiet love between them that was obvious. And of course, there was the fact that my family's concept of dinner was a little different than his, and yet he kept coming back for more. Almost 40 years later, he would still bring up how surprised he was when one of the first times he stayed for dinner and we were having hamburger and chips, he didn't know what to do or say when the chips on the plate were actually that, potato chips and not French fries! We were a little less traditional than his family, but he fit right in. I was only 12 when Dave showed up in our lives so I really inherited another big brother, but with the unique perspective that he was trying to impress my sister so he had to put up with me. And he did - always making me feel like he was happy to have inherited a little sister. I wasn't old enough to appreciate the generosity of his spirit and the strength of love between Kathy and Dave when they included me in their lives and took me under their wings from the very early days. That's never changed - family has always been the guiding light in their lives. As their family grew, first with Kas and Chad (and Chip), later Thomas and Brittany-Brie, and most recently, Parker, even though you knew they were obviously the most important people to them besides each other, Dave and Kathy have always been there opening their home and hearts to all of us. Although we can never replace you, it's our turn now to be that strength for your family. Rest in Peace, Dave. Closing Prayer (author unknown)- Read by Murray Kay at service Deep peace of the northern snow to you. Deep peace of the Silent Lake to you. Deep peace of the flowing air to you. Deep peace of the quiet earth to you. Deep peace of the shining stars to you. Deep peace of the Son of peace to you. Take me home. I willingly surrender. I shall not fear, for you are with me.

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Chad Mathieu posted a condolence

Friday, December 30, 2016

Dad I want to start today by sharing a line I contributed to my grandmother's eulogy. "Don't say goodbye, just say so long" So today I will say so long, as I know I'll see you again sitting in the boat, poking at the fire, or just around the next bend on the trail. I could tell you all a story about a great memory with my dad either at the cottage, out fishing, in the bush hunting, on the ball field, at the rink and so on and so on, but I wouldn't know how to pick just one. We've had so many great adventures together and I've been very fortunate in my life to have the kind of father and son bond that dad and I share together. When I shared his obituary I added these words. My father, my support, my teacher, my friend, my role model. He was certainly all of these things to me and more but I thought I would focus on how he was a teacher and a role model for me, and share with you these lessons I have learned. Some of these lessons were taught, some he led by example, and some come from watching him persevere through the many challenges he has had to endure over the years. Some small, some big, some silly, some serious but all have been important to becoming the man I am today. In no particular order: · Be nice · Smile lots · Be a gentleman · Always point your gun in a safe direction · Hold the door for people · Wait your turn · Drop the ladies at the door, then go park… especially if it's raining · Measure twice, cut once · Don't pick a fight that's not worth fighting · But stand up for yourself · Don't take yourself too seriously · Be goofy · Don't procrastinate… although he also taught me how to procrastinate like no other · Life can change quickly so don't wait · Stay up late with friends and family while you can · Play the music loud · Put more wood on the fire · Don't sweat the small stuff · Keep your eye on the ball kid · Follow through on your commitments · Work hard and finish the job · Put your tools away when you're done… I can't say this one has fully sunk in · Stay positive · Make a plan · Wing it if you don't have a plan · Time spent with someone is better than money spent on someone · Keep the drill straight · Roll with it · Carry a pocket knife, they come in handy · If you can help, you should help · Support your friends and family no matter what Whether by instruction or by example, he taught me all of this and more. He will continue to teach me long after he is gone. Dad, you will be deeply missed, my father, my friend. So long. Love you, Chad

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Kathy Mathieu posted a condolence

Friday, December 30, 2016

Time in a Bottle was sung at our wedding 35 years ago and the lyrics still hold true today. My nephew Yogi Turgeon did a beautiful rendition and sang this and played it on guitar at Dave's Celebration of Life memorial service. Thank you Yogi, Love Auntie Kathy xoxo Time in a Bottle- Jim Croce If I could save time in a bottle The first thing that I'd like to do Is to save every day Till Eternity passes away Just to spend them with you If I could make days last forever If words could make wishes come true I'd save every day like a treasure and then, Again, I would spend them with you But there never seems to be enough time To do the things you want to do Once you find them I've looked around enough to know That you're the one I want to go Through time with If I had a box just for wishes And dreams that had never come true The box would be empty Except for the memory Of how they were answered by you But there never seems to be enough time To do the things you want to do Once you find them I've looked around enough to know That you're the one I want to go Through time with

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Sue Larondeau posted a condolence

Friday, December 30, 2016

I would like to take a few minutes and reminisce about Dave and what he meant to those of us who have had the pleasure of knowing him. My husband Mike and Dave have been like brothers since Dave's birth and over the years they have spent a lot of time together hunting, fishing or just hanging out at the camp and they both enjoyed every minute of it. As everyone knows we go to bed quite early at night at the camp and we would often lay in bed listening to the laughter of everyone still at the campfire and say to ourselves are are very lucky. Dave was a very good listener with a great sense of humor and would always be able to put a humorous spin to every conversation. I myself have been on the wrong end of Dave's humour a few times with comments about rabbit feathers and such. Oh well it was worth the laugh. Even in the last several months when Dave was failing he still tried to keep us all at ease that everything would be okay. I also want to mention the fact that he loved his family more than anything else. That could be seen even last week when we spent time with him at the hospital he just wanted to have Kathy with him. Kathy has alway been Dave's biggest fan and she gave it her best to keep Dave with us as long as she could and we all thank her for that. Dave was also very proud of his kids Kasandra (Kassie Bear) and Chad. Dave also loved Thomas very much and always smiled when Chad's girlfriend Brittany's name was mentioned. He hadn't known her very long but was really starting to like her. Thn of course there is little Parker, he certainly didn't get enough time with him but he loved him whole heartedly. The love Dave and Kathy have for each other and their family is clear and has very much rubbed off on their children as they are both awesome kids. I also would like to mention that we whole heartedly want to thank the whole Mathieu family for welcoming us along with all of our friends to their cottage. Their generosity is unheard of. I know everyone here has a special memory of Dave and we have all been very honored to know and love Dave. I always think of a quote I heard several years ago that really applies to how we all feel today. "Grief is the price of Love" Sue Larondeau

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Sue Larondeau posted a condolence

Friday, December 30, 2016

I would like to take a few minutes and reminisce about Dave and what he meant to those of us who have had the pleasure of knowing him. My husband Mike and Dave have been like brothers since Dave's birth and over the years they have spent a lot of time together hunting, fishing or just hanging out at the camp and they both enjoyed every minute of it. As everyone knows we go to bed quite early at night at the camp and we would often lay in bed listening to the laughter of everyone still at the campfire and say to ourselves are are very lucky. Dave was a very good listener with a great sense of humor and would always be able to put a humorous spin to every conversation. I myself have been on the wrong end of Dave's humour a few times with comments about rabbit feathers and such. Oh well it was worth the laugh. Even in the last several months when Dave was failing he still tried to keep us all at ease that everything would be okay. I also want to mention the fact that he loved his family more than anything else. That could be seen even last week when we spent time with him at the hospital he just wanted to have Kathy with him. Kathy has alway been Dave's biggest fan and she gave it her best to keep Dave with us as long as she could and we all thank her for that. Dave was also very proud of his kids Kasandra (Kassie Bear) and Chad. Dave also loved Thomas very much and always smiled when Chad's girlfriend Brittany's name was mentioned. He hadn't known her very long but was really starting to like her. Thn of course there is little Parker, he certainly didn't get enough time with him but he loved him whole heartedly. The love Dave and Kathy have for each other and their family is clear and has very much rubbed off on their children as they are both awesome kids. I also would like to mention that we whole heartedly want to thank the whole Mathieu family for welcoming us along with all of our friends to their cottage. Their generosity is unheard of. I know everyone here has a special memory of Dave and we have all been very honored to know and love Dave. I always think of a quote I heard several years ago that really applies to how we all feel today. "Grief is the price of Love" Sue Larondeau

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Sandra Carriere posted a condolence

Friday, December 30, 2016

We are here today to celebrate the life of our David. Friendship is defined, simply, as one person bringing happiness to another. Over these last few days in remembering Dave I continue to feel his friendship. Memories of Dave even in my sorrow brings a smile to my face and happiness to my heart. Memories filled with so many friends. Memories of friends known as the Callander Boys, playing Ball Hockely and Baseball together for all those years. Memories of friends playing for "high stakes" during Callander Poker Night. Memories of friends spending weekends with their families at the infamous "Diver." Memories of the "Group of Eight".... memories of the Bellini incident at Wayne and Lori's, memories of culinary feasts at Doug and Joanna's, memories of afternoons spent on back deck at Sandra and Ron's, memories of Christmas Eve's at Kathy and Dave's. As much as we will all miss Dave, smile and feel his friendship through all of your memories of our sweet, wonderful, gentle friend David Till we meet again.....

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kathy mathieu posted a condolence

Friday, December 30, 2016

DAVE, We met when I was 17 and it was instant love. We were together every minute that we could be and that never changed in 37 years. To some people that would seem like a lifetime already but to me it feels like we just got started. We grew up together, raised a family together, went through struggles and triumphs but it was always together. You taught me so much and we had hoped we would grow old together but that is not to be so that is the one thing I will have to learn to do without you. Already I miss everything about you. I miss your voice, your smile, your quiet presence, your laugh. I miss coming home at lunch or supper wondering what new recipe you had in store for me. We were a team, you cooked and I cleaned. I hated the mess you made in the kitchen and how you never learned to conserve dishes so there weren't so many to wash but now I wish every pot in the kitchen was dirty and I would gladly wash them again and again. I will never hear you say "Hi Flo" again when I come in the door, I always loved when you would call me that. Our life together was rich and full. We raised 2 amazing children together. You were the best Father, everything you did was out of love for them. You always put them first in everything you did. You instilled in them the very best qualities of yourself, kindness, generosity, patience, perseverance, committment, strength, courage, a positive attitude and to never complain. Because of that they grew up to be loving and kind, generous and patient and successful in their endeavors whether it be in school sports, other interests, their work and in their relationships with others. Because of you Kas and Chad learned how a good man should be. Kasandra found one in the same in Thomas who became a son to you. Chad grew up to be great son, brother, uncle and man just like you and will be a good father and husband someday. I am sure Parker will learn all about you and will learn these same qualities as well. They learned what it is to be a great friend and how important it is to nurture friendships. This is evident by the many, many friends you have had and continued to have since your childhood. Our regular get togethers of our group of 8 of Ron and Sandra, Wayne and Lori, Doug and Jo and you and me has stood the test of time and will never be the same again and for that I am sad. When Mike and Sue and all the gang that comes to the camp to go biking, skidooing, camping and fishing will miss your presence too. Although you weren't up to going on the rides all the time you were always waiting back at camp, eager for their return with a good fire going and ready to play a game or two or just sit and chat. Your master fish fry cooking skills will be missed too. Family was so important to you. You always looked forward to relatives and friends coming to the camp whether it was for the day or for an extended stay. I could never keep up to your late nights around the campfire reminiscing and telling stories with your Dad, cousins and aunts and uncles even if you weren't feeling well. Big Christmas Eve celebrations, Christmas Day dinners, Rib fests, milestone and special celebrations of family members were always important to you as it was a chance to catch up with everyone. You were genuinely interested in everyone's lives around you and alwaystook the time to ask what was going on in their lives. You were a great husband, father, grandfather, son, son-in-law, brother, brother-in-law, uncle, great uncle, friend and cousin and more like a brother to some. You loved and touched the lives of so many people and you were loved back. You were loved by so many and because of who you were and how you loved them people wanted to help you. Some close to you loved you so deeply that they were willing to give a part of themselves to you when you needed it most and when that was not possible and time was running out for others to try a stranger gave you your 2nd chance that day and Life was Good. 5 years and 4 months have passed since your transplant which seemed to go by in the blink of an eye and even though you had so many struggles it does not seem like it was long enough but it enabled you to see that Kasandra and Thomas were happy and to walk Kas down the aisle on her wedding day, meet your grandson, celebrate our 35th wedding anniversary last month even if it was in a hospital room and have that extra time with Chad to try to make him see how much you appreciated the sacrifice he was willing to make for you and then to see him happy now too with Britt. The love and support shown to you and to me over the past several years during your illnesses from family and friends and most recently this past week has been overwhelming but I believe it is because of who you are and your spirit that inspires this generosity in others. Dave you were the best part of me and I hope that I can always draw on your courage and strength going on without you. Your suffering is over and you are at peace and for that I am happy but I will miss you deeply forever and always. I Love you, Flo xoxo

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Barry Schruder posted a condolence

Wednesday, December 28, 2016

My most sincere condolences to the Matthieu family . I knew Dave from his Wassi and Lakeview days , and was always a pleasure to call on . He always had a ready smile and spontaneous laugh , and was always ready to swap some fishing or hunting stories . RIP , Dave !!

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Barb & John Caicco posted a condolence

Monday, December 26, 2016

Kathy, Kassandra and Chad, & family, Mike & Sue. We are so sorry to hear of Dave's passing. He will be greatly missed, our thoughts are with you all.

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Sarah Bros posted a condolence

Saturday, December 24, 2016

Kathy, Cassandra and Chad, Our deepest condolences on the passing of Dave. I have many fond memories of Dave and, as many have said, his quiet strength. I'm so sorry he lost his battle. I will forever remember his kindness, support and help with whatever skating function needed volunteers. Sarah, Steve, Erin and Megan

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Aneta Swayne posted a condolence

Saturday, December 24, 2016

Thinking of you Kathy and family at this difficult time. Love and hugs, Aneta

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Robert benard posted a condolence

Saturday, December 24, 2016

My condolences to Kathy and the family. Growing up with Dave was a blessing. God bless you buddy.

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shannon macfarlane lit a candle

Friday, December 23, 2016

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Deborah McIntosh posted a condolence

Friday, December 23, 2016

My deepest sympathies to all the family. My thoughts are with you.

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Mary, Alan & Amanda Kraft posted a condolence

Friday, December 23, 2016

Kathy, Chad & Kassandra, please accept our deepest condolences on Daves passing. He was such a kind, gentle soul who cared deeply for his family. Please know that your family and friends mourn with you and treasure all the great memories created over the years.

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Nancy Harrison Bush posted a condolence

Friday, December 23, 2016

Sending deepest sympathies to your family. RIP Dave.

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Sonya Ouellette posted a condolence

Friday, December 23, 2016

I send this message with a heavy heart.I can see his beautiful smile that was always on his face and his calmness that just made me slow down and smile back. Dave I was lucky to have been in your presence, Your sweetness was something to be admired. Dave you always asked me how I was doing and cared about everyone, no matter what stage of your long battle you were at. I believe that I and everyone who knew you are better people to have had the honor. Dave you are already missed but will be an amazing angel. Until we meet again

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Allen McCauley posted a condolence

Friday, December 23, 2016

Our deepest sympathy to Kathy, Chad, Kasandra and family. From Al, Val, Austin and Emma.

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John Rochefort posted a condolence

Friday, December 23, 2016

Our deepest sympathy. RIP Dave.

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Rob Gagne posted a condolence

Friday, December 23, 2016

My deepest sympathies to you and your family Kasandra. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

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Cindy and Earl Tennant posted a condolence

Thursday, December 22, 2016

Our condolences to Kathy, Chad, Kasandra and family. We are deeply sorry to hear about Dave. He was a wonderful guy who always had a smile on his face and a kind word for everyone. Know that we are thinking of you all. Cindy and Earl Tennant

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Sam Domanico posted a condolence

Thursday, December 22, 2016

My deepest sympathy goes out to Kathy and family. Dave was an awesome man and will be deeply missed.

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Jim & Kathy Landon posted a condolence

Thursday, December 22, 2016

Our deepest sympathy and sincere condolences go out to all the family at this time of sorrow.

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Marilyn Mallette posted a condolence

Thursday, December 22, 2016

Our deepest sympathy to the Mathieu families. Jim and Marilyn Mallette

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Locky and Lyne MacPherson posted a condolence

Thursday, December 22, 2016

Condolences to the Mathieu Family. Locky and I are sorry for your loss. RIP Dave.

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kathy mathieu posted a condolence

Wednesday, December 21, 2016

kathy mathieu made a donation to TRILLIUM GIFT OF LIFE NETWORK

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Kathy mathieu posted a condolence

Wednesday, December 21, 2016

Kathy mathieu made a donation to NORTH BAY REGIONAL HEALTH CENTRE FOUNDATION

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Kasandra, Thomas and Parker Peters posted a condolence

Wednesday, December 21, 2016

Kasandra, Thomas and Parker Peters made a donation to TRILLIUM GIFT OF LIFE NETWORK

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Kasandra, Thomas and Parker Peters posted a condolence

Wednesday, December 21, 2016

Kasandra, Thomas and Parker Peters made a donation to NORTH BAY REGIONAL HEALTH CENTRE FOUNDATION

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Rosanne posted a condolence

Wednesday, December 21, 2016

Rosanne made a donation to NORTH BAY REGIONAL HEALTH CENTRE FOUNDATION Chad, what a tremendous sense of loss you must feel. Caring thoughts go out to you and all your family. Your Dad was a very brave man, what a great legacy he left you. Hugs....

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Wendy & Gerry St. Denis posted a condolence

Wednesday, December 21, 2016

Wendy & Gerry St. Denis made a donation to NORTH BAY REGIONAL HEALTH CENTRE FOUNDATION We are very sorry to hear about your loss. As you know, I always seek out quotes to help me and others in times of need. I found this one for you: Those whom we have loved never really leave us. They live on forever in our hearts, and cast their radiant light onto our every shadow. - Sylvanna Rossetti I have many fond memories of Dave. He was a very gentle soul. We are sending our most heartfelt sympathies to Kathy, Chad and Kasandra as well as their extended family and friends.